Hello,
I am 125 lbs, 5’3, pear shaped, and sleep on my stomach and side. I have a weak SI joint that flares up from sitting on too-soft couches and, most of all, sleeping on too soft mattresses.
I do well on springs that I can sink directly into and that also strongly push back. I do terrible on zoned mattresses where the hip area is firmer than the rest of the mattress. Specifically, I have had a hard time with Quality Sleep Shop’s zoned mattresses in which the center third is 15.5 gauge steel. I am not heavy enough to sink into them. I just float on their firmness and there is no push back. I have tried the Katherine and Emily, and didn’t understand the problem. My kids have two versions of their Pure Echo mattress, one made with the zoned coils, one with uniform coils. I’ve slept for several weeks on each and my body loves the uniform coils and suffers horribly from the zoned coils.
Aside from coils, another data point I’ve gathered over time is from living in France for a month every year. The vast majority mattresses are much lower profile than in the U.S.—about 6 inches. I normally do terribly on firm mattresses in the U.S., which all feature a 3” or larger comfort layer that is too thick and firm to let my hips sink into the base and hit a push back. However, in France, everywhere we go the mattresses are far more firm than you would find here in all settings from hotels, family homes, and Airbnb’s, but I do fantastic on these mattresses. I think it is from their lower profile and therefore thinner comfort layer. Interestingly, they are not spring mattresses but foam, latex, or a combination. None have anything as huge as a 3” comfort layer on top or anything as gushy as you find here. The comfort layer is thinner and subtle. It allows contouring, and I certainly hit the supportive base layer.
A quick side note: I visited a Chicago warehouse where you can try all the latest and greatest bed-in-a-box brands. They all seemed cartoonish with a hopelessly thick and overly soft comfort layer. Great marketing appeal but I have a hard time believing this predominant design works well for anybody less than 200 pounds.
Meanwhile, this all makes me conclude I need a simpler mattress, even what may be considered here as a children’s mattress, that features no more than a 1-2 inch comfort layer over uniform springs or any foam or latex base.
I am likely going with a Pure Echo, but would like to know if I have other options I do not know about. I have an open budget and I am in the Chicago area.
Many thanks for any recommendations.