Phoenix, lol yes it's been a long journey to say the least. I had no idea how involved it could be. Prior to learning anything about latex I didn't even know it existed. Like many others, a new bed meant going to the local place airing commercials. There was no asking the salesman what was IN the bed, it was a matter of how soft or firm it is and what's the best price I can get it for. Unless you're in the business in some form or another, there's roughly a decade that goes by between mattress purchases so a lot changes. I'm already aware many things aren't "made like they used to be" but had no idea mattresses had gone downhill to the point where people complaining of sagging or body impressions were the standard, not the exception.
In a sense it can be one of the more scary investments anyone makes. I for one anyway took for granted that at the end of the day, there's a bed I can fall asleep on. It's not like a tool that doesn't work out for $50 or $100 and you just take it back, it's a major part of a person's life that often gets taken for granted. It's not like trying a different type of food and oh well, that meal wasn't what I expected tomorrow is another day. Whether the up front cost is several hundred or several thousand, it's the matter of depending on something to get a basic good night's sleep. And I think regardless of anyone's walk of life people don't have the resources to just randomly purchase one bed after another - we all desperately need something to work for us if what we have isn't.
Your advice has been incredibly helpful and the time you've spent answering just my questions personally, let alone everyone else's has been immense. Not to mention the advice given by several of the vendors here that aided in my own decisions. Ken over at Arizona Premium Mattress, Jacob and Mario at Brooklyn Bedding, even Neal over at Spindle Mattress despite our differences (lol).. My final decision to purchase from Valerie at Mattresses247 had nothing to do with any of those people or their products, it just happened to be the best fit for me. Obviously I haven't dealt with every vendor on the list here, but for those I have they were really pleasant, helpful and more interested in finding a solution than making a sale. Which is a far cry from most chain salesmen who would tell you anything to get your signature.
Hopefully anyone who reads this thread realizes that these thanks are genuine, not kissing up. Every one of these people took time out of their day that they didn't have to in order to help someone they owed nothing to. Someone that was a total stranger. I've been on this forum several months and between the help I've gotten personally and the information given to others it truly is amazing. The discounts with the vendors is just an added perk, the real value is the information. Not to mention, probably the most unbiased since I've seen advice given equally whether someone was looking for an innerspring, memory foam, latex, air type mattresses.. and a safe environment for people to be able to give their stats without rude commentary. Says a lot about the members of this forum as well. At the end of the day whether we're 6'6 and 150lbs or 5'1 and 400lbs, we all want a comfortable good night's sleep without feeling ridiculed in the process or afraid to ask for what suits our individual needs.
I'll be sure to follow up once I'm able to sleep on the new mattress for a bit and try to get some photos. Now I just have to get the materials together and finalize my bed frame plans