Hi bludwig,
I've read all the literature on the guides to choosing a mattress on this site, and while I found it informative, the act of actually choosing the right mattress is a bit more cloudy.
I can certainly understand this and it's the main reason that I recommend finding the "experts" rather than becoming one. Mattress manufacturers will tell you that the learning curve never ends and even a few weeks of research into mattress design and layering will only barely scratch the surface. It's usually best just to know enough to ask better questions.
I was having trouble understanding what I'm "feeling" with different models of mattress. I tried feeling which mattress gave me less discomfort on my pressure points, but I found that none of the mattresses felt uncomfortable. My girlfriend and I have found a couple that we don't agree on completely. We think they are both nice, but I preferred the feel of one, and she the other.
You may be one of the fortunate ones that have a wider range of suitable choices. If you have spent at least 15 minutes (and longer if it's memory foam which can take time to soften) on a mattress completely relaxed and tested for pressure relief on your pressure points (usually shoulders and hips) and for alignment in all your normal sleeping positions (sensing any stress or tension in your back and having some else helping you who can help make sure that you are in good alignment) and you have also tested for preferences like motion separation and the overall "feel" of the mattress ... then the odds are good that your choice will be a good one. Of course there are still things that you can't easily test for in a showroom which is why it's so important to know what's in a mattress you are seriously considering because things like durability and even temperature regulation and other preferences can be better predicted based on materials than they can be tested for. It will also give you a way to make more meaningful value comparisons with other mattresses.
So I started looking to see what makes up these mattresses, but I am having trouble finding info and decifering the info I do find. Some of it looks like jargon names for materials.
Most of the major manufacturers don't want you to know what is in their mattresses and will replace meaningful and accurate information with marketing terms and "advertising jargon". This is usually a symptom that you are shopping in the wrong outlet which depends on marketing techniques rather than good information that helps to educate their customers. If you have to jump through hoops to find out important information ... then I would find somewhere else to shop. Would you buy furniture that you suspected used mostly particle board but nobody would tell you what was in it? This is the reason for the
guidelines here
which will help keep you away from the brands or outlets that either can't or won't tell you in plain terms what is in their mattresses.
If it's a foam for example ... it's either polyfoam, memory foam, or latex or various variants of one of these three. In most cases (but not all) if it's foam and it doesn't say memory foam or latex then it's polyfoam no matter what name they give it.
As an example ... at
you can see here
that the Beautyrest Elite PF Sidney has over 5" of unknown quality/density foam (5" of low density polyfoam and 1/2" of memory foam) above the coils. This is exactly the type of mattress that is subject to early softening and all the problems that can go with it.
The same holds true for the Therapedic (if you didn't mean the Serta Opulence Super Pillow Top). You would need to search online to find the specs if the outlet can't or won't give it to you and even then in many cases it will be missing the density of any polyfoam which is the most important spec so you will end up wasting a lot of time only to reach constant dead ends anyway. If you spend enough time ... once again you will end up finding out that in most cases the search for specs only confirmed what you suspected in the first place which is that the "unknown foam" for the most part is low quality
The top on the Therapedic felt thicker and a little more firm(dense?) while the Simmons' top felt a little flat... Soft, but flatter...
If you can't find out what is in the mattress to your satisfaction ... then what it feels like or how it performs is not so relevant. Again a particle board piece of furniture will look and perform much the same as the same piece that is made of real wood. The difference it won't last as long and doesn't have the same value. Cheap materials can feel good in a showroom ... they just don't stay that way for as long.
*Also, we are planning on checking out Croydon Mattress Factory this weekend, but I would like to try to figure out what we like and what they have that might suit our needs.
If you want to make the most effective use of your time ... do some preliminary work on the phone before visiting any outlet and "interview" them before you go there along the lines of this article. Make sure you will be able to find out the quality of the foam in the mattresses you test or there's not much point in goin there at all. In the case of Croydon for example ... they list their materials in their
foam mattresses here
. If you phone them first you can ask about the density of any memory foam and polyfoam they use to make sure they will give it to you. If you do a
forum search on Croydon
(you can click this) ... you will find that they may not be as open as they could be about their materials either and that there may be some better options available.
The most effective first step in mattress shopping is to first find the better outlets near you (and the Croydon search will give you a list of these) before you think too much about which mattress may be best for you. Do your testing in the places that will tell you what you are lying on ... or if they won't be prepared for the extensive time and research (and frustration) it will take to find out (or not) the information they should be giving you in the first place.
*EDIT* Judging from a perspective of coil count/price being the higher the better. Budget wise, our IDEAL mattress from croydon falls on the Pinnacle 2020. POSSIBLY the 2030, but we'd rather stay a little lower.
Perhaps most of all ... it's wise to avoid coil counting. Coil counts are only one of many factors that play a role in the quality and performance of an innerspring and it's not a great way to evaluate the quality of a mattress. It's the upper layers that are more important anyway because they are the weak link of a mattress. There's more about this in the
innerspring information
in the mattresses section of the site.
Phoenix