Hi Rskman,
The tempflow is one of the "coolest" memory foams. I have a tempflow pillow and was impressed with the breathibility of the memory foam they use ... as well as it's lack of smell (and he sent me a brand new one so whatever I could smell would be the worst of it).
Bamboo is also very breathable and temperature regulating so that too is a "cooler" choice.
Overall ... because of your tendency to sleep hot ... the best option is probably a thin wool protector which only has a little bit of wool in it (less than say 10 oz/sq yd) and is more stretchy so it interferes less with the memory foam.
The breathable/waterproof polyurethane membranes are a great compromise for most people (like gore-tex and similar materials in sports clothing) but they are a compromise by their very nature because having a pore size that allows for airflow but not water penetration means less breathability.
The Natura had several models of mattress protector. The Deluxe (which I purchased when it was on sale at Costco) and the other "protect" series has a polyurethane membrane along with the wool but there is less wool in it than their other models. They also have several wool and cotton mattress pads without the membrane (like the Dormeir but they have more wool).
Most of the wool pads and protectors that have stretchy corners or sides so they won't bunch up so much in sleeping but they will tend to compress over time. Thicker wool layers are softer and quite frankly nicer but they also have a greater risk of compressing and will affect the feel of the layers underneath them more.
This stayclean protector from Walmart (
video is here) may be worth testing if for no other reason that you can return it if it doesn't work.
So as it stands your upper layers that could make a difference in sleeping temperature (from the foam up) look like this ...
Tempflow memory foam ... cooler than most memory foams in both the foam and in the design.
Bamboo Ticking ... cooler than most tickings.
Mattress protector ... still to be decided but hopefully cooler and more breathable than the Luna
Sheets ... unknown but linen (flax) might be a very "cool" choice if you haven't tried them.
Pyjamas (if any) ... unknown ... but more natural materials would likely be cooler than synthetics.
Blankets ... also unknown but perhaps worth some experimenting
Sleeper ... clearly tending towards hot ... and probably not adjustable
Phoenix